Monday, November 28, 2011

Here In My Home

I'm surprised that this post of mine in Facebook could get so many likes..
No idea whether you guys can see the words..
What I wrote was
Translation: "I am a pretty girl from Ipoh, my body is fat like Ipoh's bean sprout, my skin is as smooth as Ipoh's kuey tiao."
Oh, FYI...
Ipoh, my hometown, is very famous for it's food, especially bean sprouts and kuey tiao..
AND!! They said Ipoh mali girls are beautiful~~ Like me...
Muahahahahahaha.... ( <-- Action XD)

No matter what, I love my home.
Ipoh is surrounded by mountains and hills, which made it a beautiful place with all kinds of natural phenomena..
And because of this, the food here are the BEST and TASTIEST!!!
And girls here, phewww-witt!! Pretty!!! XDDDD
I love this place..
You guys..
If you're not from Ipoh you must pay a visit here and try the food...
Food originated here are delicious...I bet you'll like them..
Promoting my home sweet home..Ipoh!!
Ipoh mali, I'm proud to be one.. ^^

Museum Perak..
It's the floor...
Perak's map..
Nice right XD

20111128    1.17PM

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Why I Love Christmas??

I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas
I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas
I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas
I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas
I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas
I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas
I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas
I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas
I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas
I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas
I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas  I ♥ Christmas
I LOVE CHRISTMAS!!! ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

Why I ♥ it??
Coz it's the MOST beautiful season in the year..

Harmony, peaceful, warm....
I ♥ the tree and the ornaments...
Really beautiful ~ ~
I remember I wrote a blog about turtle doves before..
This is one meaningful thing about Christmas..
I ♥ the winter snow...
White beautiful flakes that covered the ground..
Though it's impossible to see it here in Malaysia but still..
By watching the shows and the movies I can actually feel it..
Hahaha.. Alright alright.. Too much..
I ♥ the caroling part of Christmas..
Carols!!! Awwww...Beautiful songs and melodies...
The one I love the MOST is "Sleigh Ride"...
Love those sounds of the bells..
Jingle jingle jingle..
"Just hear those sleigh bells jingle-ing
Ring ting tingle-ing too
Come on, it's lovely weather
For a sleigh ride together with you...."
And and oh oh oh!!
Santa and presents!!!
Though Santa is not real but it's a really good myth that keep children behaving themselves..
And presents!!! Really damn jealous when I saw presents under the tree..
And kids receiving presents from mommy and daddy..
Adults exchanging presents among each other..
This is the time you'll get stuffs that you wanted..
Coz Santa probably received your letter of requirement..
It's a joy, cheerful and wonderful time of the year..
All about gifting and sharing and family reunion...
I'm  not a Christian and I don't actually celebrate Christmas with my family..
But everytime during this time I'll go out somewhere to feel the joy of the season..
This year..
I hope miracle could happen...

20111127    11.03PM

Friday, November 25, 2011

The Heart or The Brain?

I bet many of you guys encountered this before...
So, follow your heart?? Or follow your brain??
A subjective topic here..
Some said follow your heart.
It will tell you what to do, just follow the flow...
As long as you're happy..
Some said follow your brain.
Think before you do it, don't break the rules...
Don't do this because it will.....Don't do that because it will...
Too many restrictions right??
That is why most of us will choose to follow our heart.
When we got hurt then only we regret, for not thinking deeply before we take action.
For me, I always follow this rule..

Follow your heart, but don't forget to bring along your brain.

Yes, your heart will tell exactly what to do.
Mine too... I always believe my instinct.
Coz it always seemed to be right about a particular person or situation...
But before I make any judgement, I'll throw it to my dear brain to analyse..
And yes, when they work together the result is always better...
It depends on each individual..

Follow your heart or follow your brain??
You make the judgement and the choice darlings...
Good luck...

20111125    5.27PM

Thursday, November 24, 2011

My Motivator

Always been my motivator...
The first time I watched his clip was a few years ago...
Back then when I was having a quite severe depression case there...
(Owhhh...Depression sucks!!)
I remembered I actually cried like a baby that time...
Everything he said in the clip touched my heart deeply...
I like this saying of his:

"It matters HOW you're going to finish.
Are you going to finish STRONG??
You'll find the strength to get back up..."

Even now, whenever I feel down in my current life..
I'll still watch his clip, and it still sends tears to my eyes..
I'm impressed by his strong positive mind that keep him going against the odds in his life..
I mean, even normal people like us couldn't find the strength to go on after traumas..
But for him, it's like he'll always have that strength..
He's grateful to everything he's having..
And I think that's what kept him going..

I've been taking positive psychology in this semester.
After studying it for like 6 weeks, 12 lecture classes and 12 tutorials..
I found out that every chapter or every question we answered..
Gratitude can't escape from them..
The power of being thankful, of being contended, of being grateful for what you have and accept things that you owned, that you've gone going to shape you into a better person..
That is very important..
Back then when I was in depressed mode..
I never had any medicine or gone through any kind of therapies...
I was diagnosed to have depression by a counselor from Taiwan..
I mean, I, as a psychology student, I know myself..
It's just that how am I going to help myself when the emotions and the fluctuations was in me..
It's still hard even if you knew the method..
But Nick did helped me..
I got chills and it felt like I'd been strike by a lightning...
Like I'm able to shout: "I'VE GOT THE POWER!!" at that time..

Nick can get back up when he fell, why couldn't I??
He has no arms and no legs and he's living happily, why couldn't I??
He love his life, why don't I??
He's the one who inspired me...

Back then, now...and forever will be...
Thanks Nick..

20111124    4.15AM

Saturday, November 19, 2011

Between Life and Death

Make a choice between life and death.
What will you choose??
To live? Or to die?
I bet everyone will choose to live...
No matter what's the cost, no matter how...
Today I discovered something...
Something that not only it gave me shock but also disappointment.
I'm sad, and at the same time angry towards them.
And I keep trying to figure out WHY???!!! Would they do that....

It's about my uncle...
He was diagnosed with diabetes and kidney malfunction.
Both his kidneys are almost 95% spoiled....
The only cure for him is to go for dialysis to control his illness.
His son, his wife, and my cousin sister DISAGREE with that!!
And the reason they gave is:
Sis: "Once he started dialysis, he's going to suffer from that for the rest of his life!!"
Son: "I don't mind, but remember, dialysis is very painful, and people still die..."
This is the WORST!!
Wife: "If he started on dialysis he can't go on the plane and he can never get to travel..."

I'm like WHAT THE FUCK??!!!
Are those for his good??
Are they trying to save the husband, the father, the uncle??
They're trying to kill him!!
They have the money, more than enough for him to go through the treatment.
My beloved uncle, had been admitted to hospital for few times!!
And he got a pair of swollen legs and hands now!!
NO ONE!! I mean NO ONE!!! Bother to go and pay him a visit...
Even his own wife...
I cried when I think of it today...
If he dies....It would be a murder... T_T

I mean...
Yes, he's going to suffer for the rest of his life once he started the treatment;
But if he don't, he WON'T be having "the rest of his life" anymore...
Yes, it's painful and people still dies;
But at least he have a chance to live, who knows things won't turn out fine?? Who are you to arrange his death?? No one have the right to take away his life even if you're his son, only God will decide...
Yes, He won't be able to board a plane and visit his grandchildren;
But if he just dies without trying to live, he won't be able to see his grandchildren too, and that will happen earlier if he don't take the treatment...
And the daughter just kept quiet..
SIS!!! You're going to get married next year!! If your father dies he won't be able to share your happiness!!!
He won't be able to see you in your wedding dress!!!
After everything that he had sacrificed for the family...
What did he get???
A worthless death??
I can't believe this is happening...

I keep wondering what is on their mind???
Is it money that matters??
If yes then why....Money is more important than a LIFE??!!!
A life of a father, a husband...Of someone that had sacrificed so much.....
If this person is my father...I would quit my study, get a few jobs and get the money for him!!!
No matter how....Coz he's my father!!
Now I just don't understand...And I don't wish to see anything happen to my uncle...
May God bless him and hope he could go through this hardship...

Dear God,
If you could hear me...
I know my uncle is suffering now...
He rejected the treatment because he listened to the bad guys..
Not because he's scared..It's because he love them and he don't want to be a burden for them..
I can feel this in him..
Dear God... I wish my uncle could feel better despite of the illness...
He's my family...I don't want to see any of my family member suffers...
That's all I could wish for him..

20111119    11.41PM

Saturday, November 12, 2011

Pikachu ♥

I bet a lot of you who watch Pokemon love Pikachu.
Ain't it cute ?!!
Let's try the origami...
I did it ^^ ♥ 
ピカチュ..... かわいい !! 


20111112    7.18PM

Unconditional Love

Everyone wants a love that lasts, that is unconditional, that is true.
I just watched this Taiwan show where a female artist said something that make sense.
There is no "Mr. Right" in this world.
There is only a Mr./Ms. Right in yourself.
When you have enough confidence in yourself, not overly confident by the way;
When you're not afraid of life challenges, have courage to face the odds, to overcome them;
When you can still smile and say "Everything will be fine" when you're in deep shits;
When you no longer have to depend on someone to feel secure, happy, protected and loved;
When you can love yourself as much as you can and treasure life;
When you can totally manage your behavior, emotions and thoughts....
You'll find the right you, the strong you.
And then, every relationship that you're in will not be a "relation-SHIT".
Agree?? Yes I totally agree.
That would be beautiful...

P/S: Quote this from the elders.
        If you want someone to love you...
        You must first learn to love yourself ^^

20111112    7.12PM

"Sum Ting Wong"

Don't wonder, the title is actually "Something Wrong"..
Y'know.. Typical Chinese will actually pronounce it as "sum ting wong"..
So, what is actually wrong here??
I realized that I'm afraid of boys nowadays...
Y'know... BOYS!!
Immature, selfish, childish, egoistic creatures!!!
(And I mean boys, gentlemen please stay outta way...)
Well, not all boys should be labeled this way but...
MOST of them are!!
Even some of my guy friends agreed!!

There are these 2 fellas that I know back there..
I shall just call them Anonymous and Bnonymous..  (<-- Hahaha)
These boys just can't keep their mouth shut.
I don't mind if they make jokes and fools around.
But if it's beyond the limit...Well...
The point is, joke can be believed as fact sometimes.
When a joke is being made again and again and again...
People might think that it's a fact, a truth, a reality...
And the one whom you make fun with will not be happy.
Not only that, this Anonymous..Gosh!!
He's just too....I don't know how to say...
He always belief that he himself, as a 90s, is very mature thinking and smart.
He's just a dumbass for me anyway.
As he don't know how to keep a secret and protect someone's privacy.
I mean, you have to understand that no one will want their secrets to be revealed.
Especially to those whom you don't want your privacy to be revealed to.
He just doesn't know what is respect.
Even to a girl!!
Such a jerk!!

And there are guysssssssssss whom I knew...
As what we Malaysian called, these guyssssssssss here are really "perasan".
You'll know the meaning when I further describe them.
First, if you talk to them, they'll think you have feeling on them.
Second, if you be nice to them, they'll think you like them.
Third, if you play with them, they'll think they can touch you anyway they wanted to.
Fourth, if you answer their calls, they'll think you already accepted them as someone special.
Most importantly, if you hang out with them (dinner, movie, whatever....), they'll think both of you could get married already, an official couple!!!

I've had experienced this and that incident really freaked me out.
After that I couldn't agree to hang out with any guy except those that I knew for a long long time and also my families.
It's true!! Everytime a random guy asked me out I'll feel afraid.
That's why I said there's something wrong inside me.
Owhhh...I wish this could end fast.
This feeling is awful....

20111112    6.43PM

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Random Share

This is from a Chinese newspaper basically.
I just found it really meaningful so I hope to just share it here.
Due to my "lau yah" Emglish and poor vocabs.
I find it hard to translate this.
It's basically about the smiles that you could give when you're in deep shits that would make your life better.
(Kinda like that. Hahahaha... )

And the later part is about some ideas in life:
1. Always help those in need, but never let them feel that it's a necessity for you to help them.
2. Don't take people's good as necessities, be grateful instead.
3. Be generous in giving applause and compliments. A good compliment can light up a person's day; overly compliment could be annoying.
4. Focus on the problem, not the person; be firm in problem-solving, be nice to people.
5. Good deeds doesn't mean good returns, but never give up of doing good deeds.

I hope I'm correct about those.
Nice day ahead ^^

20111108    12.06AM

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